Character Matters

Did My Ego Stop Me From Making a Friend?

🧠 Friendship Check-Up: Are They Defending You When You're Not Around? | Sober Psychology Short Let’s get real — if your “friends” are adding fuel to the fire when your name comes up and you’re not in the room, they’re not your friends. That’s your reality check today. I used to write people off based on qualities that annoyed me — until I realized they annoyed me because they mirrored me. That’s called ego, my friend. And ego will rob you of real connection. Here’s the raw truth: The people you want around you? They don’t just show up when it’s convenient. They defend you when it’s not. They’ve got your back in silence and in storms. ✅ Do your friends stand up for you when you’re not there? ✅ Or are they letting your name get dragged just to fit in? If it’s the latter… it’s time for a friendship audit. Growth means being willing to admit when you’ve judged people unfairly — and when you’ve let the wrong ones stay too long. Because a real one? They’ll back you in a fight you never even knew you were in.