Emotional Neglect
2 episodes tagged "Emotional Neglect".
The Two Types of Mothers That Damage Children Most
We talked about dad—now we have to talk about mom, and this is where it gets uncomfortable. In the psychology of generational trauma, the mother wound often cuts deeper because it happens earlier. Jungian psychology describes two dangerous patterns: the devouring mother (enmeshment—making you responsible for her emotions) and the dead mother (physically present, emotionally absent). Both teach a child the same lie: your needs don’t matter unless you perform. If you carry a mother wound, you may be trying to fill that hole with addiction, achievement, or approval. The hard truth is this: you have to stop going to an empty well. Accept that she can’t give what she doesn’t have. Stop begging for validation. Learn to mother yourself—that’s where healing begins. If this resonated, like, comment, and subscribe for honest conversations about trauma, recovery, and faith. —Michael, Sober Psychology
When Independence Becomes Your Prison
Let me speak directly to you. If you grew up having to be the strong one—the high achiever who never asks for help—what you’re calling maturity is often a defense mechanism. When your emotional needs were ignored or mocked, your brain learned: people are unreliable; I have to rely on myself. That’s not strength. That’s hyper-independence—trust issues wearing a tuxedo. Saying “I’ve got it” isn’t low-maintenance; it’s preemptive rejection. We’re wired for co-regulation—to calm stress through connection. When you refuse help, you trap cortisol in your body and poison yourself with pride. Healing starts when you let people in. If this hit home, like, comment, and subscribe for honest conversations about mental health, recovery, and faith. —Michael, Sober Psychology