Fatherhood Unfiltered

Is ADHD Just an Excuse or Something Real?

🔥 Neurodivergent ≠ Excuse 🔥 Let’s get real — ADHD, OCD, autism… they’re real, they’re daily, and for some of us, they’re loud as hell. I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD and functional OCD. Maybe you relate. Maybe you’re a sleep-deprived parent like me, making 100 panic-driven choices before 9 AM. I get it. I live it. But here's the hard truth: your wiring is not your permission slip to act like a tornado. It’s not your excuse to avoid, procrastinate, or blow stuff up and say “oops, ADHD.” That might feel spicy, but it’s said with love — because I’ve used those labels as shields too. We’ve hit this weird cultural moment where everyone’s a self-diagnosed TikTok neuropsychologist, turning trauma and neurodivergence into quirky personality traits. That’s dangerous. Because if you’re using your diagnosis to explain why you can’t, instead of how you’ll adapt, then it’s just a branded excuse. Here’s my rule: 🧠 Know your wiring. 📖 Learn how it operates. ⚒️ Build strategies anyway. Being neurodivergent doesn’t make you broken. It means you’ve got a different manual — so read the damn manual.