Intent

Nice guy behavior signals deception to women

Let’s talk about dating—because this is where Nice Guy Syndrome does the most damage. I hear it all the time: “Women say they want nice guys but date jerks.” That’s not confusion—that’s biology. From an evolutionary psychology perspective, being overly agreeable signals deceit, not safety. Hiding intent, hovering, and pretending to be a friend to sneak intimacy kills attraction and trust. Here’s the truth: intent is respect. Say what you want. Be direct. Take the L if it’s a no and walk away with dignity. Attraction dies when you play games. If this hits, like, comment, and subscribe for more unfiltered psychology on dating, boundaries, and growth. —Michael, Sober Psychology