Internal Family Systems

You’re Not Burnt Out. You’re Just a Recovering ‘Good Kid’.

If you did everything right—got the grades, landed the career, stayed out of trouble—and still wake up every morning feeling like an exhausted fraud, this episode is for you. Millennial burnout isn’t a matter of poor time management or needing another mindfulness app. It's the structural collapse of a childhood identity built on "conditional approval." In this episode of Sober Psychology, Michael breaks down why high-achieving adults are crashing into middle age running on empty, combining developmental psychology, addiction science, and the spiritual cost of religious performance. ⚠️ Drop a comment below: What is the one boundary you are terrified of setting this week? 📚 CITED PSYCHOLOGICAL & THEOLOGICAL FRAMEWORKS: • Carl Rogers: Client-Centered Therapy & Conditions of Worth • Carol Dweck: Praised Intelligence vs. Growth Mindset • Alice Miller: "The Drama of the Gifted Child" • Gabor Maté: "The Myth of Normal" (Attachment vs. Authenticity) • Richard Schwartz: Internal Family Systems (IFS) Model • Biblical Reference: Luke 15:11–32 (The Elder Brother) & Galatians 3 🎙️ ABOUT SOBER PSYCHOLOGY: Hosted by Michael—a psychology student, sober dad, and recovering gold-star addict. Sober Psychology bridges clinical data, dark humor, and Christian theology to dismantle modern emotional neuroses.