Main Character Syndrome

The Paradox of Self-Love No One Talks About

⚠️ Not all “self-love” is healthy — some of it is narcissism in disguise. This Short exposes how modern dating culture and Instagram-style “protect your peace” advice fuel main character syndrome, turning relationships into transactions and people into NPCs. Real intimacy isn’t tidy. It’s disruptive, sacrificial, and messy. And here’s the paradox: you can’t cure loneliness with self-love — only with other love. When everything becomes about “my peace,” “my plot,” “my standards,” you’re not healing… you’re isolating. If this challenged you (in the best way), drop a comment, share it with someone stuck in the self-love echo chamber, and subscribe for more psychology and dating truth.