Performance Anxiety

Why Do We Make Excuses When We Fail?

🎯 Why You Set Yourself Up to Fail (And How to Stop) 🎯 Ever stay up all night before a big test on purpose just so you could blame your failure on being tired — and not on being “dumb”? Yeah… been there, done that. It’s called self-handicapping, and it’s your ego’s sneaky little defense mechanism. 👉 “I didn’t fail because I’m not smart. I was just tired.” Sound familiar? This twisted form of self-sabotage gives you a safety net for your pride… but here’s the punch to the gut: 🧠 A 2020 study in the Journal of Behavioral Decision Making found that this ego-protection trick destroys your performance, ruins relationships, and wrecks your mental health. So next time you create an excuse to fail — procrastinating, picking fights, blowing off opportunities — just know: It’s not bad luck. It’s YOU setting landmines in your own life. But the good news? You can stop. Start owning it, drop the excuses, and give yourself a real shot at success. Let’s get out of our own damn way.