Psychologist In Training

Are Your Friends Honest With You?

🚫 Real Friends Don’t Co-Sign Your BS | Accountability & Loyalty Check Let’s make this brutally clear: If your “friend” never calls you out when you're acting like a lunatic… that ain't your friend. That’s an enabler. A background actor in the movie of your dysfunction. 🎯 A real friend doesn’t just hand you a tissue — they hand you a mirror. They say: “I love you, but you’re acting like an absolute ass. You’re better than this. Let’s fix it.” That’s accountability — not judgment. Not shame. But truth in love. And guess what? If you can't handle that… maybe you’re not ready for real friendship. Now let’s talk about loyalty. If they’re not defending your name in a room you’re not even in? ✂️ Cut the cord. That’s not a friend — that’s a liability in your emotional portfolio. Yeah, it’s hard to let go of convenient connections. But staying in fake friendships because you’re afraid to be alone? That’s way more damaging in the long run. You're not lonely — you're surrounded, but still unseen. Here’s the gut-check: Do your friends call you higher? Do they defend you when you're not around? Are they just keeping you around because you’re convenient? If not… it's time to clean house.