Reciprocity

The Secret To Finding Real Friends That Stick Around

🎯 Real Friends Match Your Energy | Vulnerability vs. Oversharing Let’s run it back — we hit this 2 weeks ago in the Oversharing episode (shoutout to Brené Brown, the vulnerability queen 👑), but it’s worth repeating: Connection comes from authenticity, not trauma-dumping on day one. 🚫 Nobody wants to hear about your toenail fungus during the first hangout. ✅ But if you share what actually matters — your struggles, your wins, your real thoughts — you’ll see who sticks around. Those are your people. And don’t sleep on reciprocity. Say it with me: Re-cip-ro-ci-ty. Got it? Good. 📊 A 2017 study in Social Psychology and Personality Science showed that balanced give and take builds trust. Not rocket science: ✔️ You text me back ✔️ I show up for your birthday ✔️ We both actually care That’s friendship. But if you’re always the one buying the drinks, apologizing, or chasing them down — congrats, you’re not in a friendship. You’re in a customer service role. Bottom line: Real friends match your energy. Don’t beg for scraps. Pay attention. Set boundaries. Be real. Be balanced.