rumination
2 episodes tagged "rumination".
Trauma is the Wound, Resentment is the Scab
Trauma is what happens to you. Resentment is what you keep. 🛑 Trauma is a wound, but resentment is picking the scab every morning so it never heals. In this video, I break down the actual definition of Resentment. It comes from the Latin re-sentire, which means "to feel again" or "re-feel". When you ruminate on the past, your brain doesn't know the difference between the memory and the event. Your amygdala fires and your body prepares for a fight that happened 10 years ago. You are trapping yourself in a time loop. You’re living in a haunted house, but you are the ghost. 👇 Discussion: Are you "picking the scab" of a past hurt? What would happen if you finally let it heal? Tell me below.
Are You Making Your Stress Worse Without Knowing?
🔥 “Stop Chewing on Old Pain — Break the Rumination Cycle!” 🔥 Let’s get real for a second — rumination is not deep thinking. It’s you gnawing on your pain like a dog with an old bone. 🐶💭 And guess what? It’s torture — self-inflicted torture. A 2017 study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology showed that excessive rumination cranks up emotional stress — not the vibe we’re going for, right? You’re not processing your boss’s snarky comment for “closure” — you’re just replaying that crap on a mental loop like a broken record. That ex’s new post? The one you keep stalking? You’re pouring salt on your own wound. For what? More pain? 👀 ✨ Here’s the fix: 📝 Journal it — get it out of your head. 🗣️ Talk it out — grab your people, your therapist, or your dog (hey, they listen!). 🥊 Punch a pillow — seriously, move that stuck energy out. Stop circling the emotional drain. Break the cycle. Choose growth over pointless mental gymnastics. Drop a 🧠 if you’re ready to get out of your own head and take your power back!