Self Work

What If YOU Are The Toxic One?

🔥 Friendship Detox Starts With You 🔥 Welcome back to Sober Psychology! Last week we talked conversations — this week, we're going deeper into friendship — not the fluffy “tag me in memes” kind, but the raw, real stuff. The patterns. The betrayal. The accountability. The healing. And here’s the gut punch, folks: Toxic friendships don’t just happen to you — sometimes you keep them around because you’re afraid of the fallout. Or worse… sometimes you’re the toxic one. 👀 I’ve been doing the work myself — auditing the people I keep close, noticing who’s gossiping, who’s not matching energy, and most importantly, who I’m letting slide because I don’t want to feel alone. But here’s your psychological reminder: 🧠 You can’t control other people — but you can control yourself. You control your boundaries. You control your energy. You control who gets a seat at your table. You want freedom? You want peace? Put in the work. Clean house. Do the hard thing. Say the goodbye. Let’s keep this going — share this with someone who’s doing the work too. Drop a 💯 if you’re done being a doormat.