songofsolomon

Why You Can't Get Turned On By Your Wife

"Where such men love they have no desire, and where they desire they cannot love." — Sigmund Freud 🧠 You aren't broken. You are suffering from the Madonna-Whore Complex. 🚩 You have been trained by Purity Culture and Porn to believe that sex = dirty/degrading. • The Whore: You take your sexual needs to the gutter (porn) because it feels "nasty." • The Madonna: You treat your wife like a saint (or your mom) to protect her "purity." This splits your soul in half. You have a wife for safety and a pixelated harem for adventure. The Solution: Read Song of Solomon. It isn't polite. It’s sweat-drenched pursuit. You must learn to ravish and respect her at the same time. Bring the wildness out of the gutter and into the marriage bed where it belongs.