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💔 “Nobody Cares About Your Highlight Reel” | Sober Psychology Ep. 34 Final Words Short Let’s just call it what it is: We’re selfish. We want to look smart, sound funny, and feel important. But here’s the dark truth: 👉 Nobody cares about your highlight reel. They care about feeling heard. I’m 36 and still learning this the hard way. If you want to be a better conversationalist, stop trying to win the conversation—and start trying to connect. That’s it. That’s the whole formula. 💬 When you’re future-tripping, worrying about what you’ll say next or how you’ll come off, you’re not in the moment. And when you’re not present, people feel that. They don’t trust it. They don’t open up to it. 🧠 From cavemen to now—tribal connection has always meant survival. We need real connection. But in today’s world? We’re the most “connected” generation in history… and the most disconnected emotionally. Why? Because likes, views, and notifications give us a dopamine hit. And for many of us—including me—we’ve become more addicted to online approval than real human connection. The solution? 🔌 Unplug. 👂 Listen. ❤️ Connect without trying to impress. That’s what makes conversation meaningful.