Stop Sabotaging

Can Talking to a Friend Help You Reach Your Goals Faster?

🚨 Self-Sabotage Hates Accountability — So Get Some. 🚨 Listen, if you’re trying to stop blowing up your own life, here’s the cheat code: Tell someone. A friend. A therapist. A sponsor. Hell, even your cat. (They’re judgmental little accountability coaches anyway.) 📊 A 2020 study in Behavior Research and Therapy found that external accountability — like regular check-ins — increases your follow-through by 50%. That’s a HUGE win for just opening your mouth. For me? I leaned hard on my sponsor, my recovery friends, and the people in my life who knew that “no” to drinking wasn’t a request — it was a rule. And if they ever saw a drink in my hand, they’d knock it out before they knocked me out. (Good friends do both.) 🔁 Find your people. Hold the line. Don’t let them let you off the hook. Accountability isn’t weakness — it’s strategy. And it might just save your ass.