toxicpositivity
2 episodes tagged "toxicpositivity".
Welcome to Sober Psychology (No Fluff Allowed)
Stop smiling. Let’s get real. 😐 Welcome to Sober Psychology. I’m Michael—a psychologist in training and a recovering "nice Christian boy" who used to think anger was a sin. If you are new here, here is the deal: 🚫 We don’t do fluff. 🚫 We don’t do "manifesting." We take the raw data of psychology and the gritty truth of the Bible to dismantle the lies we tell ourselves. If you are tired of pretending to be okay when you aren't, this is a safe place to be a mess. 👇 Discussion: Are you tired of the "good vibes only" culture in the church or self-help world? Let me know in the comments.
Why Jesus Wept (He Didn’t Fake Being Happy)
"I'm too blessed to be stressed." (While their left eye is twitching). 🥴 We all know that person. They treat negative emotions like radiation. But here is the hard truth: You aren't being positive; you are dissociating. In this video, I explain Spiritual Bypassing—the act of using God as a drug to numb the reality of your life. The danger is simple: If you numb the dark, you also numb the light. You cannot heal what you do not feel. Even Jesus wept (John 11:35). He knew He was about to raise Lazarus, yet He still stood in the tragedy and felt it. Stop faking it. 👇 Discussion: When someone asks "How are you?", do you lie and say "I'm fine"? Tell me the truth in the comments today.