Twin Flame Truth

Why You Chase People Who Reject You

Let me be blunt with you—this isn’t love, it’s limerence. And neurologically, it looks a lot like OCD and substance addiction. In a healthy relationship, serotonin brings calm and security. In limerence, serotonin drops, anxiety spikes, and you start chasing a fix. That fix isn’t a drug—it’s a person. Here’s the trap: research shows that rejection intensifies obsession. When they ghost you, your dopamine doesn’t die—it surges. That’s not a “twin flame.” That’s frustration attraction. You’re not fighting for love; you’re chasing the high of turning a no into a yes. And that cycle will wreck your peace if you don’t name it for what it is. If this woke you up, like, comment, and subscribe. We get sober from delusion around here. —Michael, Sober Psychology