Why We Overshare

Oversharing Why We Do It & How to Stop

📢 “Why I Overshare (and Why You Might Too)” | Part 1: What Is Oversharing? | Sober Psychology Short Let’s be real—I have a problem with oversharing, and that’s exactly why I’m making this episode. Not a ton of Freud in this one (you're welcome), but we are getting honest about why we do this, especially in recovery. For me? Oversharing usually comes from seeking validation. It’s that deep-rooted belief: “I’m not good enough, so let me tell you my life story in five minutes or less and maybe—just maybe—you’ll like me.” I’ve done this with friends. With family. With strangers. With… you guys. Maybe that’s why I even started this YouTube channel—to find some way to be validated for oversharing. Might as well hit record, right? But here’s the working definition for Part 1: 👉 Oversharing is when you dump your emotional baggage on someone who didn’t ask for it. It's trauma-bonding with your coworker over lunch. It's tweeting your mental breakdown to 47 followers and a bot named Greg. It’s too much, too soon, to the wrong person. And it doesn’t heal you—it leaves you hollow. Let’s dig deeper. Hit me up in the comments once this drops. We’re just getting started.