You Choose

Why Is Choosing So Hard For Some People?

🔥 Life Is a Shitty Matchmaker—Pick Something Before It Picks for You 🔥 Let’s get this straight: indecision isn’t harmless. It’s not cute. It’s not “just how your brain works.” It’s a wrecking ball to your progress, your relationships, and your mental health. And if you’re neurodivergent, this whole “just pick something” thing? It feels like psychological warfare. ADHD? You’re either quitting a job in a rage spiral or ghosting your own life because decisions = brain fog and doom. 📚 2020 study in the Journal of Abnormal Psychology found that ADHD increases decision-avoidance, leading to missed opportunities and chronic stress. OCD? Your brain spins the roulette wheel of “what ifs” until you're emotionally bankrupt over picking a damn sandwich. 📚 2021 study in the Journal of Anxiety Disorders linked OCD to decision paralysis, which wrecks both your productivity and your relationships. So listen: pick something. Or life will choose for you — and life? She's got terrible taste. She's setting you up with missed chances, regret, and stress-induced insomnia. You get to choose. That’s the power move. Don’t surrender it. Even a “meh” choice is better than no choice.