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Toxic Dance Oversharing, Addiction, and Finding Balance

🕺 “Oversharing & Addiction: The Toxic Dance of Validation” | Sober Psychology Short Welcome to Part 3—Oversharing and Addiction: The Toxic Dance. Think Bonnie and Clyde—partners in crime, chaotic chemistry, and bound to wreck your life if left unchecked. Here’s how these two feed off each other: 🧠 1. Seeking Validation Addiction often starts with a deep sense of inadequacy. A 2018 study in Drug and Alcohol Dependence found that 60% of addicts use substances to cope with feelings of low self-worth. So what happens in recovery? You’re sober now, but still starving for validation—so you start oversharing just to feel seen. ⚡ 2. Impaired Impulse Control Addiction rewires the brain. That means your filter is shot. You might not intend to trauma-dump, but your impulse control isn’t fully restored yet. You say too much, too soon, to the wrong people. 👥 3. Group Dynamics in Recovery AA, NA, support groups—they’re built on honesty. But when you dominate the room or spill too much, it disrupts the space. People pull back. You feel rejected. And that? That isolation can push you right back toward your substance of choice. Look—this isn’t about silencing your story. 🧭 It’s about finding the line, reading the room, and sharing with purpose, not panic. You’re not being asked to bottle things up. You’re being invited to heal with wisdom.