humanmagnetsyndrome
2 episodes tagged "humanmagnetsyndrome".
The Math Behind Toxic Relationships (-5 vs +5)
You aren't "unlucky" in love—you are following a mathematical pattern. 🧮 In this video, I break down Ross Rosenberg’s Human Magnet Syndrome and the concept of Limbic Resonance. If you struggle with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency), you are likely a "-5" on the emotional scale. You don't attract healthy partners; you inevitably attract "+5" narcissists because the math equals zero. It feels like a soulmate connection, but it’s actually a trauma bond. The "spark" you are looking for? That’s just anxiety. And if you found a healthy, stable partner, you’d probably be bored out of your mind because your nervous system is wired for war. I know because I've been there. Peace feels boring when you're addicted to chaos. 👇 Discussion: Be honest: Have you ever broken up with a nice person because there was "no spark"? Let's talk about it.
Empaths Playing Victim is a Red Flag Nobody Talks About
Stop putting "Empath" in your Instagram bio. 🛑 It’s the truth your therapist is too afraid to tell you: You aren't a victim of bad luck. If you keep attracting narcissists, it’s because you have no boundaries. You are signaling that you are desperate for validation and willing to be a martyr. I’m Michael—a psychologist in training, a sober dad, and a recovering egomaniac. In this video, we are burning the victim card. We are talking about the Human Magnet Syndrome, the Jezebel Spirit, and why your people-pleasing is actually biblical idolatry. You aren't an empath; you’re likely a narcissist enabler or a covert narcissist hiding in plain sight. 👇 Discussion: Does this trigger you, or do you agree that "empath" is often just a label for zero boundaries? Sound off in the comments.