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Empaths Playing Victim is a Red Flag Nobody Talks About

Michael
MichaelFounder & Host, Sober Psychology
January 16, 2026 1:09 READ/WATCH
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Stop putting "Empath" in your Instagram bio. 🛑

It’s the truth your therapist is too afraid to tell you: You aren't a victim of bad luck. If you keep attracting narcissists, it’s because you have no boundaries. You are signaling that you are desperate for validation and willing to be a martyr.

I’m Michael—a psychologist in training, a sober dad, and a recovering egomaniac. In this video, we are burning the victim card. We are talking about the Human Magnet Syndrome, the Jezebel Spirit, and why your people-pleasing is actually biblical idolatry.

You aren't an empath; you’re likely a narcissist enabler or a covert narcissist hiding in plain sight.

👇 Discussion: Does this trigger you, or do you agree that "empath" is often just a label for zero boundaries? Sound off in the comments.

This video is for general educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or go to your nearest emergency room.

Michael

About Michael

I'm Michael, a mental health creator, recovered alcoholic, future therapist, and the host of Sober Psychology. After realizing how much of the traditional mental health conversation misses the mark, I decided to build a space dedicated to raw, unfiltered self-examination and personal healing. My approach combines psychological principles with brutal honesty and hard truths, cutting through the noise to help people navigate their own growth. No toxic positivity, no hidden shame—just real conversations about what it actually takes to heal.