shadowwork
2 episodes tagged "shadowwork".
Are You Helping... or Using Them?
Are you really helping, or are you just hungry for self-esteem? 🧛♂️💔 Most people think being a "fixer" is a virtue, but often it’s just the shadow side of a Savior Complex. In this clip, I’m exposing the "covert contracts" we make when we trade help for loyalty. We're diving into the neurobiology of the Fixer's High—the dopamine hit you get from feeling indispensable. It’s not charity; it’s emotional vampirism. Let's get raw about why you really want to save them. Have you ever been caught in a covert contract? Tell me your story in the comments. 👇 If you're ready for the hard truths about psychology and mental performance, hit Subscribe. 🔔
Empaths Playing Victim is a Red Flag Nobody Talks About
Stop putting "Empath" in your Instagram bio. 🛑 It’s the truth your therapist is too afraid to tell you: You aren't a victim of bad luck. If you keep attracting narcissists, it’s because you have no boundaries. You are signaling that you are desperate for validation and willing to be a martyr. I’m Michael—a psychologist in training, a sober dad, and a recovering egomaniac. In this video, we are burning the victim card. We are talking about the Human Magnet Syndrome, the Jezebel Spirit, and why your people-pleasing is actually biblical idolatry. You aren't an empath; you’re likely a narcissist enabler or a covert narcissist hiding in plain sight. 👇 Discussion: Does this trigger you, or do you agree that "empath" is often just a label for zero boundaries? Sound off in the comments.