Journal Of Social And Personal Relationships
2 episodes tagged "Journal Of Social And Personal Relationships".
How To Instantly Be More Liked In Conversations!
📱 “Why You Suck at Talking (and How Your Phone’s Making It Worse)” | Sober Psychology Ep. 34 Finale Short – Tip 2 & 3 Tip 2: Stop Dominating the Conversation Let’s talk facts—even if they hurt. A 2018 study from the Journal of Language and Social Psychology found that people who talk 80% of the time are seen as less likable and less trustworthy. And yeah… I’ve been that guy. If you're the dude at the party rambling about your crypto portfolio while everyone’s scanning for an exit—you are the problem. 🛑 This is not your personal TED Talk. Conversation is a two-way street, not a monologue with a captive audience. Tip 3: PUT. THE. PHONE. AWAY. There’s a 2020 study from the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships that found even just having your phone visible during a conversation reduces trust and connection. Visible. Not using it. Just existing on the table. So if you’re checking notifications mid-sentence, the message you’re sending is: “You’re less interesting than my IG feed.” 🥶 Savage? Sure. True? 100%. You’re not listening—you’re just waiting to flex. So: 📵 Put it down. 🧠 Shut up a little. 👂 Actually listen. Do that—and suddenly, you're the person people want to talk to.
Why Oversharing Is a Cry for Help
🎙️ “Verbal Diarrhea & Validation: The Psychology of Oversharing” | Raw Recovery Short Hey, I’m Michael—your host, a psychologist-in-training, and a guy who clawed his way out of the whiskey-soaked trenches of addiction. Today we’re tackling a topic that’s more uncomfortable than a hangover on a Monday: oversharing. Yeah… that thing where you dump your life story on a barista, or blast your darkest secrets to the world on social media—just for a few dopamine-fueled likes. So why do we do it? 🧠 Oversharing isn’t just awkward—it’s a psychological red flag. A 2019 study in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found that 60% of people overshare to seek validation. That’s not connection—that’s a cry for affirmation. For those of us in recovery, it’s also a dangerous minefield. You see, oversharing often comes from a need to be seen, but ironically it can leave you feeling more exposed, more ashamed—and more likely to relapse. This isn’t your grandma’s self-help show. We’re going raw. Unfiltered. No coddling. But yeah—it’s still love. Always love. Just don’t expect hugs after every hard truth. Stick around if you’re ready to confront it.