Recovery Real Talk

Why Moderation Never Works for Addicts!

🔥 Moderation? That’s a Damn Myth. Let’s Set the Record Straight. You ever tell yourself, “I’ll just have one”? Yeah, that’s the same logic as asking a shark to just nibble on a surfer. Spoiler alert: it never works. In this 🔥 Sober Psychology Short, we’re tearing into the delusion of moderation. Because if you’re an addict or alcoholic, there’s no such thing as a “casual drink.” You’re not sipping wine like a French philosopher—you’re pounding shots like it’s 2008 and Lil Jon’s on the aux. This isn’t about willpower. It’s brain chemistry. It’s that peculiar mental twist The Big Book talks about—and neuroscience agrees. Whether it's beer, wine, or jungle juice from a trash can (we've all been there), you’re not moderating—you’re negotiating with a liar. And science? It doesn’t fight the AA model—it reinforces it. The more we learn about addiction, the more we realize The Big Book had it right decades ago: moderation is a setup, not a solution. I’ve tried every mental gymnastics routine in the book—"No liquor, just beer," "Only on weekends," "Just one glass." Every time? Faceplant into the same chaos. So let’s stop the charade. If you’re wired like me, moderation is just a slower form of relapse. Call it what it is.