secondaryemotion

Why You Love Being Angry

You say you want to move on... but I don't believe you. 🛑 Part of you loves the anger. Why? Because anger is a stimulant. It gives you a hit of adrenaline (energy) and dopamine (reward). It makes you feel strong, while grief makes you feel weak. In this video, I explain Anger as a Secondary Emotion. Think of resentment as a "Bodyguard." He stands at the door of your heart to protect you from pain, but he's corrupt. He isn't just keeping the bad guys out; he's keeping your wife, your kids, and even God out. Stop using your trauma as social currency. As long as it pays in validation, you'll never let it go. 👇 Discussion: Be honest: Does being angry make you feel "safe" or "powerful"? Let’s talk about the addiction to righteous indignation in the comments.