Spiritual Malady

The Real Reason You Feel Empty Inside!

🎯 Why do we relapse? It's not about weak will or bad luck. It's about trying to fill a soul-level void with a bottle or a baggie—and spoiler: it never works. 🧠 In this episode of Sober Psychology, we dive into what the Big Book calls the spiritual malady (page 64)—that gnawing emptiness inside you that screams for relief the moment life gets tough. Whether it’s grief, trauma, or just the existential horror of folding fitted sheets, that void is real. 📚 Psychology backs it up. A 1997 study in the Harvard Review of Psychiatry by Khantzian laid it out plain: we relapse because we’re self-medicating emotional pain. But here’s the problem—drugs and alcohol don’t fix the pain… they amplify it over time. That dopamine hit feels good right now, but it just digs the hole deeper for tomorrow. This isn’t about blame. It’s about truth. And truth is the first step toward freedom.