The Real Reason You Feel Empty Inside!
🎯 Why do we relapse? It's not about weak will or bad luck. It's about trying to fill a soul-level void with a bottle or a baggie—and spoiler: it never works.
🧠 In this episode of Sober Psychology, we dive into what the Big Book calls the spiritual malady (page 64)—that gnawing emptiness inside you that screams for relief the moment life gets tough. Whether it’s grief, trauma, or just the existential horror of folding fitted sheets, that void is real.
📚 Psychology backs it up. A 1997 study in the Harvard Review of Psychiatry by Khantzian laid it out plain: we relapse because we’re self-medicating emotional pain. But here’s the problem—drugs and alcohol don’t fix the pain… they amplify it over time. That dopamine hit feels good right now, but it just digs the hole deeper for tomorrow.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about truth. And truth is the first step toward freedom.
This video is for general educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or go to your nearest emergency room.
About Michael
I'm Michael, a mental health creator, recovered alcoholic, future therapist, and the host of Sober Psychology. After realizing how much of the traditional mental health conversation misses the mark, I decided to build a space dedicated to raw, unfiltered self-examination and personal healing. My approach combines psychological principles with brutal honesty and hard truths, cutting through the noise to help people navigate their own growth. No toxic positivity, no hidden shame—just real conversations about what it actually takes to heal.