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You Are The Unforgiving Servant

Michael
MichaelFounder & Host, Sober Psychology
January 31, 2026 1:30 READ/WATCH
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You're walking around choking people for $50 debts when God canceled your $100 million debt. 💸

In this video, we dive into the Parable of the Unforgiving Servant (Matthew 18). Psychology explains the mechanism of resentment, but theology explains the solution.

Forgiveness isn't a feeling; it is a financial transaction. It’s admitting, "I made a bad investment, and I'm cashing out with what little dignity I have left."

If you refuse to forgive, you're handing yourself over to the "torturers"—anxiety, depression, and bitterness. You're living in a torture chamber of your own making.

👇 Discussion: Are you holding onto a "debt" (an apology, money, time) that you need to cancel today? Let me know in the comments.

This video is for general educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or go to your nearest emergency room.

Michael

About Michael

I'm Michael, a mental health creator, recovered alcoholic, future therapist, and the host of Sober Psychology. After realizing how much of the traditional mental health conversation misses the mark, I decided to build a space dedicated to raw, unfiltered self-examination and personal healing. My approach combines psychological principles with brutal honesty and hard truths, cutting through the noise to help people navigate their own growth. No toxic positivity, no hidden shame—just real conversations about what it actually takes to heal.