Grieving a Toxic Parent Who is Still Alive (The Mother Wound) w/ Barbie.
If you've ever had to protect your peace by walking away from a toxic family dynamic, you are not alone. In this episode of Sober Psychology, I am joined by my good friend Barbie Hahn to unpack the reality of the mother wound and surviving a childhood warzone.
We explore how different Enneagram types process trauma (7w8 vs. 8w7) , the unique pain of grieving a parent who is still alive , and how to reconcile faith with the necessity of hard boundaries. Barbie shares her incredible journey from escaping chaos to finding a steady anchor, and leaves us with one of the most powerful pieces of advice: how to be your own mom.
Don't be a jerk, just subscribe! Keep your head up, keep your heart open, and go help somebody. Barbie makes incredible content on her Instagram account. You can find that here: https://www.instagram.com/barbiehahna/
This video is for general educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or go to your nearest emergency room.
About Michael
I'm Michael, a mental health creator, recovered alcoholic, future therapist, and the host of Sober Psychology. After realizing how much of the traditional mental health conversation misses the mark, I decided to build a space dedicated to raw, unfiltered self-examination and personal healing. My approach combines psychological principles with brutal honesty and hard truths, cutting through the noise to help people navigate their own growth. No toxic positivity, no hidden shame—just real conversations about what it actually takes to heal.