Stop Trying to Fix People
Why is your best friend always in a crisis, and why do you keep dating "projects"? 🚩
It’s time for some brutal honesty: Healthy, secure adults don’t tolerate rescuers. When you try to over-function for someone who is stable, they’ll tell you to back off. To a rescuer, that boundary feels like rejection. This is why you subconsciously seek out "emotional black holes"—people with narcissism or severe codependency who will gladly consume every bit of energy you give. A narcissist needs a worshiper, and a rescuer needs a project. It’s a match made in psychological hell.
Does this cycle sound familiar? Let’s talk about it in the comments. 👇
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This video is for general educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or go to your nearest emergency room.
About Michael
I'm Michael, a mental health creator, recovered alcoholic, future therapist, and the host of Sober Psychology. After realizing how much of the traditional mental health conversation misses the mark, I decided to build a space dedicated to raw, unfiltered self-examination and personal healing. My approach combines psychological principles with brutal honesty and hard truths, cutting through the noise to help people navigate their own growth. No toxic positivity, no hidden shame—just real conversations about what it actually takes to heal.