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Were they lying to you then, too? (Betrayal Trauma) |

Michael
MichaelFounder & Host, Sober Psychology
April 14, 2026 0:19 READ/WATCH
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When trust is shattered, it doesn't just impact your future; it retroactively affects your past, leading to questions like, "Were they lying to me then too?" This kind of betrayal can be a profound source of emotional abuse and trauma. It's crucial to understand that snooping in such situations isn't a sign of craziness, but often a traumatized individual's attempt to establish a baseline of reality and protect their mental health. Understanding the psychology behind these reactions is a vital step toward healing. 💔🧠

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This video is for general educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or go to your nearest emergency room.

Michael

About Michael

I'm Michael, a mental health creator, recovered alcoholic, future therapist, and the host of Sober Psychology. After realizing how much of the traditional mental health conversation misses the mark, I decided to build a space dedicated to raw, unfiltered self-examination and personal healing. My approach combines psychological principles with brutal honesty and hard truths, cutting through the noise to help people navigate their own growth. No toxic positivity, no hidden shame—just real conversations about what it actually takes to heal.