Is Rehab Too Easy Now?

⚖️ AA: Rigid Rules vs. Inclusivity — The Debate ⚖️

I’ve been to a lot of meetings—some that used to be closed but are now open. And honestly? I think AA has folded to societal pressure, watering things down compared to what it once was.

I was lucky. My rehab was a boot camp—last line of defense. It taught me the old-school way of the Big Book: rigorous, no shortcuts, no gray area. And I’m grateful for that. But I’ve watched that same rehab soften over time, and I catch myself thinking: “What are we doing?”

Here’s the tension: hold too tightly to rigid rules, and you risk becoming a fundamentalist. But loosen them too much, and you risk losing the fire that made recovery powerful in the first place. That’s been a personal struggle for me—I believe in non-negotiables. I believe some lines cannot be blurred.

But here’s the other side: would AA have gone global, reached millions, and saved as many lives without becoming more inclusive? Maybe not. That’s the paradox—discipline builds strength, inclusivity builds reach.

So the question isn’t just “Has AA gone soft?” It’s: What’s the right balance between holding the line and opening the door?