Why Do We Keep Going Back To Therapy?

🧠 Freud, Adler & the Brutal Reality of Your Baggage

Alright, let’s break this down — therapist-in-training style. Yeah, you can argue Freud’s whole psychoanalytic model absolutely built a business plan: “Keep digging up your past so you keep coming back.” Meanwhile, Adler’s approach (shoutout to my psychology nerds) focused on purpose, growth, and moving forward — not super lucrative if people actually heal and bounce, right?

But here’s the reality bomb — regardless of which camp you vibe with: You don’t have to carry your wounds forever. I still have memories I wish I didn’t. I still catch a grudge sneaking up on me sometimes. But the only reason I’m not the same raging, self-sabotaging, whiskey-soaked asshole I used to be is because I addressed it. I sat with it. I exposed those demons. I shined a damn flashlight in the shadow so they couldn’t rule me anymore.

✅ That’s not Freud vs. Adler — that’s just psychological truth. Trauma buried grows fangs. Trauma faced loses its power.

So ask yourself: What demon do you know you’re still keeping in the dark? What’s one shadow that needs light?

👇 Drop it in the comments if you’re brave enough. No shame. Just growth.