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Resentment is More Addictive Than Cocaine

Michael
MichaelFounder & Host, Sober Psychology
January 30, 2026 0:49 READ/WATCH
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"Resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die." ☠️

We've all heard the quote, but here is the hard truth nobody tells you: You like the taste of the poison.

In this video, I explain why resentment is actually an addiction. In the courtroom of your mind, being the "righteous victim" releases dopamine. It makes you feel morally superior. But while you are high on self-righteousness, your soul is rotting.

We are breaking down the Zeigarnik Effect (why you can't stop ruminating) and the "Root of Bitterness" (Hebrews 12:15).

Put down the poison. Let them go—not because they deserve it, but because you deserve to be free.

👇 Discussion: Are you holding onto a grudge because it makes you feel powerful? Be honest in the comments.

This video is for general educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are in crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or go to your nearest emergency room.

Michael

About Michael

I'm Michael, a mental health creator, recovered alcoholic, future therapist, and the host of Sober Psychology. After realizing how much of the traditional mental health conversation misses the mark, I decided to build a space dedicated to raw, unfiltered self-examination and personal healing. My approach combines psychological principles with brutal honesty and hard truths, cutting through the noise to help people navigate their own growth. No toxic positivity, no hidden shame—just real conversations about what it actually takes to heal.